g2h Posted August 4, 2010 Report Share Posted August 4, 2010 When is the Ditch Fling? it's being voted on, here, not sure of the date yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J Posted August 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 4, 2010 Let me know... John O's me a beer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
g2h Posted August 4, 2010 Report Share Posted August 4, 2010 will do, i'll buy the shots. looks like the weekend of sept 10-12 is winning right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J Posted August 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 4, 2010 Works for me.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John O' Posted August 4, 2010 Report Share Posted August 4, 2010 Let me know... John O's me a beer Several, if not many. "ALL THE BEST!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John O' Posted August 4, 2010 Report Share Posted August 4, 2010 will do, i'll buy the shots. looks like the weekend of sept 10-12 is winning right now. George, is the Ditch Fling piggybacking the Ditch Troll Fest? "ALL THE BEST!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GaryK Posted August 4, 2010 Report Share Posted August 4, 2010 It is kinda sad J. Keeping a family together is very hard work...there maybe nothing harder. I am reminded of that and tested constantly. There are many who throw in the towel quite easily, and others, like you, that give it their best to the very end. And that is all you can do. Good luck, chin up, be there for the kids...you may no longer be a husband, but you're still a dad... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J Posted August 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 4, 2010 Thanks Gary. In a way,I'll always be a husband too, an x-husband. In as much as we will both continue to be parents to these boys, we will always be linked. The fact we are maintaining joint residency here complicates matters even more. We spent a lot of time mediating the parameters to this and I think we have most of the bases covered. Only time will tell if it works. If it doesn't, there are bail options for both of us. One thing is certain, the boys will stay in the house until the youngest graduates unless we both agree to something else. Veto rights are held by both of us when it comes to relocating the boys. If either of us wants to leave, the boys stay with the parent not relocating... I've no issues with what she does in her new single life and neither does she of mine. 26 years together gave us one thing and that was the ability to look past hurt feelings and do what is best for the kids. I hope it all works out and I know a lot of things can go wrong but with no real animosity between us, we seem to cooperate pretty well. There are times that emotions get in the way but usually they are manageable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
g2h Posted August 5, 2010 Report Share Posted August 5, 2010 George, is the Ditch Fling piggybacking the Ditch Troll Fest? seems that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John O' Posted August 5, 2010 Report Share Posted August 5, 2010 seems that way. Makes sense and sounds good to me, I just hope it doesn't conflict with my neighborhood block party again. "ALL THE BEST!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
g2h Posted August 5, 2010 Report Share Posted August 5, 2010 Makes sense and sounds good to me, I just hope it doesn't conflict with my neighborhood block party again. you could always alternate . you did hit that party last year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John O' Posted August 5, 2010 Report Share Posted August 5, 2010 you could always alternate . you did hit that party last year. We sorta host. I coulda retired on the empties left behind, if I wasn't so lazy. "ALL THE BEST!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Highlander1 Posted August 5, 2010 Report Share Posted August 5, 2010 Sad to hear Jay but you did give it all you had. Wish you the best of luck with everything, you deserve a break in life. "Thats as big as a fish that size gets" - Russ WilsonRIP JM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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