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Sooo I got into a heated argument with my girlfriends mom

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View PostStand your ground man. Your beliefs are your beliefs. If the woman you're with can't handle that, then find another one. Also, to hell with her mom's opinions. If you guys make it through to being married, you'll realize that it's just the two of you who are the most important to each other. You'll get loads of opinions and tons of crap from the in-laws and parents, but they aren't the ones who go to bed with you at the end of the day. Unless you're a freak. kooky.gif

 

View Postthe reason you "go out" with a person is to see if you are compatible, to see if they or their family are nuts, or just for the sex.

something to think on 'cause ya know from here what grief the in laws can cause. If your woman can't get past this completely then bail before it becomes a stick she beats you with.

The mission is to find one that is not only boinkable but one you can be happy with for a long long time.

other wise your gonna pay support for somebody elses chumpot

 

What these two said... and if mommy dearest was the one to break the rule, then there's nothing at all wrong for standing up for your beliefs. She broke the rule, not you.

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She's only a potential MIL. She's not that important in the grand scheme of things. What's more important is your gf. Does she share the same views as her mother just as passionately? Will she try to change your POVs if they aren't the same as hers? Or be more willing to accept them and compromise for the sake of peace in her relationship with you? All that will be indicators of how solid or not she's with you

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Consider it a test. You see, what really happened is the mother lioness is giving her cub a lesson, much as in the wild they teach them to hunt and such. Your GF's mother pressed your buttons to evoke a response. Your reaction will be used to judge you as possible mate material, and as well, how to play you in the future. Kinda like a how a cat plays with a mouse, but doesn't kill it, this is what happened.

 

At the risk of sounding like a knuckle dragging Neanderthal (which I don't deny being, btw) it's hard work to train a wife and MIL. But, how you handle this situation is in fact part of the training. You fold, she knows that can get away with it, and will use it against you in the future. You stand your ground, she knows she needs to find another game to run.

 

The dating phase of a relationship is when you sort out all this petty crap, so that if you decide to go long term, you can work through the major stuff.

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View PostConsider it a test. You see, what really happened is the mother lioness is giving her cub a lesson, much as in the wild they teach them to hunt and such. Your GF's mother pressed your buttons to evoke a response. Your reaction will be used to judge you as possible mate material, and as well, how to play you in the future. Kinda like a how a cat plays with a mouse, but doesn't kill it, this is what happened.

 

At the risk of sounding like a knuckle dragging Neanderthal (which I don't deny being, btw) it's hard work to train a wife and MIL. But, how you handle this situation is in fact part of the training. You fold, she knows that can get away with it, and will use it against you in the future. You stand your ground, she knows she needs to find another game to run.

 

The dating phase of a relationship is when you sort out all this petty crap, so that if you decide to go long term, you can work through the major stuff.

 

 

 

^^ What he said.

 

Or find yourself an orphaned amputee. wink.gif

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erm my stance on politics is... anti-socialist.. pro-gun and pro-working-hard for-yo-money so stop living like someone owes you somethin..

 

 

the argument was based on religion although her political sence is just as er umm unliked.. biggrin.gif she's a big O supporter... ohh and this is my girlfriend smile.gif

 

 

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