I have to preface again, I'm not criticizing anyone that OC's. Respect the decision to excercise your right. To answer your first question, I don't OC, never will and never have the need. CC is what I do and that's all I need and desire. I don't fear governments from "taking away all my rights"....because some gun laws I don't agree with at all. 2 of them are OC and Stand your ground. So if they took away my "right" to OC, no sweat. For society, I would prefer (based on CT laws) that it's not AUTOMATIC that when you get your permit you can OC.
The second part of your question you made an assumption from my post that is not true-seeing someone OC doesnt scare me at all. But I know the way society in cities are and I don't have a need to draw attention to me carrying. That's my views, and it is OK only if you can't see it in my book. If i have to use, I don't want someone to know i have one.
I don't know if OC allows for easier or quicker draws, hence my respect for those who might need to in wilderness.....but in cities, I don't want to draw attention to me having one.