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#1 swedishfish10180

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Posted May 17 2006 - 11:39 AM

Another survey question, fellas. Any gals that want to chime in - feel free.

Just curious of the typical male veiw point on a one night fling and how you would view the girl afterwards.



#2 Billybob

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Posted May 17 2006 - 11:43 AM

Ideally, you'd never see her again.
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Posted May 17 2006 - 11:43 AM

one night flings i never gave to much thought about , i have had some long term freindships with girls i had a one nighter with and we just didn't "click" in that department.



first night flings on the other hand i wouldn't consider anything more than taking the relationship any further than sexual.



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Posted May 17 2006 - 11:46 AM

simple.

no glove

no love


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#5 swedishfish10180

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Posted May 17 2006 - 11:51 AM

would view her as not being lady like, well what I am really trying to say would you view her as a pig?



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Posted May 17 2006 - 12:08 PM

Why would she be anymore of a pig than you? If the sex is good I would think the world of her. Maybe try for a Two night stand


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Posted May 17 2006 - 12:12 PM

try not to judge. it takes 2 to tango right? so obviously you found some redeeming quality or a means to an end thru another human being, one who deserves respect & decency that you would show anyone else. that doesnt mean you have to invite her over moms for sunday dinner. if she's THAT bad, cover your face & neck and play dead


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#8 Andrew B.

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Posted May 17 2006 - 12:12 PM


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Originally Posted by swedishfish10180


would view her as not being lady like, well what I am really trying to say would you view her as a pig?




Not unless they act like a pig.



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Posted May 17 2006 - 12:12 PM

Mr fish - If she's a pig you shouldn't be 1 nighting her.
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Honestly, women have every right that a man does to go for a little pony ride just for fun.
Who are we to pass judgement ?
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Posted May 17 2006 - 12:14 PM

People are people
gender doesn't matter
I know some folks who were intimate on their first "date".
They are very happily married with 3 great kids.


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Posted May 17 2006 - 12:15 PM

If she's wants to do it who am I to say anything about her. It's her choice too.


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Posted May 17 2006 - 12:23 PM

wouldn't think she was a pig unless she acted like one. no shame in one niters besides, eagerness counts!



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Posted May 17 2006 - 12:31 PM

what a second guys!!!!. I am a women. Eliza.



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Posted May 17 2006 - 12:33 PM

I ditto what Charlston and Otter said.

Man is that scary.


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Posted May 17 2006 - 12:35 PM

Eliza?
Eliza Thornberry ?
How come you never call me ?


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