I have a buddy at work who’s been living this lifestyle for years. He calls it an open relationship.
His wife is very prim and plain. The girlfriend was the drunkest, wildest woman I’ve ever known.
He’d show up to company functions with one or the other at random and was himself a totally different person in every way depending on who he was with.
The girlfriend died of alcohol poisoning a few months ago and I think that part of his life is over.
She worked for West Marine and I got boat parts at cost for ages.
At last years Christmas party he, the girlfriend and another plastered couple were at the bar with my wife and I. One minute they were loudly planning the threesome they were going to have in about 10 minutes.
The next minute the two girls were ripping each other’s hair out.
We paid our tab and booked. Monday morning at work was weird to say the least.